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In Medieval times, a
bride and groom were not even allowed to meet each other until the actual
wedding ceremony. This was so neither one could back out if, when they saw the
person, they would not want to be married to them! This ancient custom has
carried forth where now people feel it is bad luck to see each other
before the ceremony. In fact, there is no basis to the success or longevity of a
marriage if the bride and groom wait to see each other until the ceremony.
It is important for the
couple to decide for themselves which way they would like to go, and inform the
photographer about a week before the wedding. To assist the bride and groom with
making an informed decision, there are a few items worth noting:
It
is a special moment when the couple first sees each other. When
it is done before the ceremony, they can talk to each other and
express how they like the way the other one looks! This is what
each one wants to know anyway, but a ceremony itself is not the
place for a bride and groom to talk to each other and tell each
other what they are thinking. The moment they first see each
other also makes a wonderful candid photo!
Many times the couple is glad that they are seeing each other in
advance in case there are any wedding details that they need to
discuss. In this case, it is a good thing they were together
beforehand to discuss it!
It
adds to the stress to not see each other and it actually reduces
stress when the couple DOES see each other first.
When the flowers, hair, make-up and clothes are all new and
fresh is the best time to take pictures. This can be especially
true for a hot and/or humid day.
The
bride and groom can choose any location within a half hour drive
of the ceremony to take pictures. There are many beautiful spots
that have water, trees, flowers, grass, nice sky, impressive
architecture, etc. that would not be practical to visit after a
ceremony.
It
gives the bride and groom something to do before the ceremony
and it takes their mind off wondering if the rest of the day is
going to go well. The beforehand photo session can actually be a
lot of fun!
The
only people that would be around before the ceremony would be,
if possible, the wedding party, brothers, sisters and parents.
Since these are the most important people needed for pictures,
the session goes much faster because there are no guests around
at that time.
After a beautiful and moving wedding ceremony, people are
sometimes crying and guests all want to congratulate the bride
and groom. Especially at a one location wedding, people don't
usually feel like taking all the photos afterwards. There is a
cocktail hour usually happening and this is when the bride and
groom prefer to say hello to many dear friends and relatives who
have come from afar.
The
entire pace of the wedding goes smoother and quicker if most of
the photos have already been taken in advance. This makes the
catering manager, DJ or band and guests happier and even reduces
the liquor bill at the cocktail hour!
After photos are taken
beforehand and the bride and groom separate, he still waits at the front and she
is escorted down the aisle by her Dad as usual. The couple still gazes at each
other and the moment is just as special for them because they realize that this
is the moment they have been waiting for!
The fact that photos have
been taken in a nice spot before the ceremony, does not detract from the magic
of the moment when the ceremony begins. Also, the guests have not seen the bride
in advance, so they ARE seeing the bride for the first time at the ceremony.
This usually elicits many proud and joyful smiles!
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