The Origin of the Trousseau
The trousseau can be traced back to the barter-price, purchase-price and
dowry systems. It was customary for a bride to come to her husband with
a dowry, so that the man might be compensated for his expenses in caring
for the children of his wife’s lineage.
The Origin of Members of the Bridal Party
During the 'marriage by capture' era, the loyal tribesmen and close
friends of the groom within the tribe aided him to invade the enemy
territory to capture his bride. While he dashed off with her, his
friends stayed behind to fend off or fight the brides outraged
relatives. Such were the first ushers and best man. The maid of honor
and the bridesmaids, as they are known today, can also be traced back
through the centuries to Saxon England. The senior among them would
attend the bride for several days before the wedding. She was especially
responsible for the making of the bridal wreath, the decorations for the
wedding feast, and for dressing the bride.
Origin of the Processional
In Medieval times, the processional was especially colorful. Gaily
dressed minstrels sang and piped at the head of the procession. Next
came a young man bearing the bride-cup, which was a chalice or vase of
silver or silver-gilt, decorated with gilt, rosemary and ribbons. Then
the bride walked, attended by two bachelors, and a dozen or so knights
and pages. Next came maidens carrying bride cake, followed by girls with
garlands of wheat. The bridegroom then appeared, led by two maidens, and
walked in the midst of his close friends, including his "best
man". The relatives walked after him, and these were followed by
less intimate friends.
The
Tradition of Wedding Gowns
In early Saxon days and through the 18th century, it was the poorer
bride who came to her wedding dressed in a plain white robe. This was in
the nature of a public statement that she brought nothing with her to
her marriage and that therefore her husband was not responsible for her
debts.
The Origin of the Veil
The introduction of the veil into Europe came through returning
crusades. In early wedding tradition in Europe the bride was bargained
for through her father. She was swathed in a bridal veil, and revealed
to her mate after the ceremony. In Anglo-Saxon times, the bride wore her
hair hanging loose as part of the wedding ritual.
The Tradition of Flowers
The wearing of a wreath of orange blossoms as a crown on the bridal veil
was a Saracen custom introduced by returning Crusaders. Orange blossoms
were so expensive that only the wealthy could afford them and poorer
brides resorted to artificial ones. Flowers also carried special
meanings.
The Origin and Tradition of the Wedding Cake
Although it is difficult to tell the specific region that the wedding
cake originated in, the early Romans broke a cake made of salted meal
over the bride's head as a symbol of abundance. Various cultures
customarily dropped wheat flour or cake upon the bride's head, then ate
these offerings for good luck. The early Britons baked large baskets of
small dry crackers for weddings and every guest took one home. This
later became known as the tradition of taking the wedding cake home to
"dream on". The tradition of a decorated cake in the shape of
an animal, a castle, or basket dates back to the Middle Ages and was
called a subtlety. Often coins or silver charms were baked into the cake
as prizes for the guests.
The Origin of the Honeymoon
In Northern Europe in the earlier centuries, a newly married couple
drank wine made of mead and honey, known as, metheglen, for a month
after their marriage. A month was then a "moon", and therefore
the month during which the wine was drunk became known as the honeymoon.
The Origin of Throwing Rice and Old Shoes
The throwing of rice or grain historically symbolized good luck and
fertility, or abundance. Among ancient Asyrians and Jews, when a bargain
was made, a man gave his sandal as an indication of good faith. A show
was the symbol of authority. When the Anglo-Saxon hurled a shoe, it
indicated that authority had been transferred.
The Origin and Tradition of the Garter Toss
The garter toss is one of the oldest surviving wedding traditions. It
was said that a man who gave his love the garter of a bride would be
guaranteed faithfulness. Back in medieval times, it was customary for
friends, relatives, guests to accompany the bridal couple to the
marriage bed. As time went on, this became rowdier and rowdier to the
point that some guests were all too eager to help the bride out of her
wedding clothes. To forestall such impropriety, the garters were quickly
removed and thrown to the mob as a distraction. As time went on, it has
evolved into the tradition we now know.