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Snow
glistening in the sun like tiny diamonds. Warm and cozy flames blazing in the
fireplace. Warm cider scenting the air. If these images evoke feelings in you,
then you realize that winter can be a truly magical time, and a winter themed
wedding may be the perfect choice for you.
Save A Buck
The pun was intended, but it's definitely a valid
concern during the holiday season. With careful planning and some forethought, a
winter wedding can be planned without breaking the holiday budget. My first
suggestion would be to start planning one to two years ahead of time. This will
give you a chance to take advantage of sales after the holidays.
It seems that the stores start to sell holiday
merchandise earlier and earlier each year. In many cases, they will run special
promotions and sales. If you are planning a winter theme wedding this year, you
can take advantage of the sales now. If you are planning one next year, I
suggest waiting until the after Christmas sales. This will insure that you get
the maximum use out of your allocated wedding dollars as merchandise often gets
marked down drastically after the holidays.
It's not always possible to take advantage of the
sales though. If you are not able to, this year is a great time to wait for the
sales that will occur after New Year's is over. If your winter wedding happens
to fall in the year 2003, you have a great opportunity to give out memorable
favors or create memorable centerpieces. Take advantage of it, and save some
cash!
All
Dressed Up
Though it's certainly not true everywhere, the
most common association with wintertime is snow. With its white color and
sparkling essence, white and silver would be a perfect color choice for a winter
wedding. This can be reflected in the attire of the wedding party as well. Many
brides opt for a white gown, but a groom can also choose to wear white. The
bridesmaids can be dressed in silver gowns and the groomsmen in white tuxes with
silver (or gray) bowties and vests.
Of course, there are other options as well.
Platinum is a very similar color to silver, and has become a popular choice. The
bride can opt for a gown with platinum or silver threads throughout. She can
also opt for faux fur lined gowns complete with muffs in place of a bouquet.
Bridesmaids can wear holiday dresses featuring snowflake or star motifs. As
mentioned in the saving money section of this article, this is a great year to
be planning a winter wedding as the merchandise is varied and will be available
for a longer period of time.
All
the trimmings
Perhaps one of the nicest aspects of planning a
winter wedding is that many of your vendors (depending on who you use) may
already have decorated for the season. Many use the colors of red and green, but
silver and white are also common colors for the season. When looking for
vendors, search a year in advance if possible to see if their decorating fits
your needs. If it does, be sure to ask if they use the same decorating year
after year. If so, you may be able to save some money on decorating costs. This
advice applies to different vendors and services, but the most common are: hotel
rooms (banquet, reception, etc.), churches, halls and restaurants.
If it's not possible to have the decorating
already done for you, then this theme is one of the simplest to decorate for.
Pew bows can be as simple as white ribbon with an ornament hanging from them.
Snowflakes or stars are great and easy to find during the holiday season. Simple
flower arrangements can include all white flowers in a silver-tone container.
Unity candles can be white in regular silver candlesticks with white flowers (or
petals) surrounding the three candles. Instead of throwing just flower petals,
the flower girl can throw petals mixed with a small amount of glitter. This adds
sparkle to the aisle runner, but I should caution that the flower girl should
wear a sparkly dress if you want to do this. Glitter gets everywhere!
After
the ceremony is over, it's time for the reception. White tablecloths would be
perfect for a winter theme wedding. If you are planning on using your own
linens, you can dress them up easily using stamps. I recently purchased a large
snowflake stamp and silver ink for under $15.00, and can definitely envision it
stamped on a tablecloth! Small amounts of glitter could be tossed on the tables
for sparkle. Small Yule logs could be used as centerpieces or you could
incorporate inexpensive seasonal merchandise in your centerpieces. One example
is wine glasses filled with floating white flowers or silver streamers and
Christmas ornaments. Favors could range from wine glasses (depending on the
price you can purchase them for during the after New Year's sales) holding tulle
wrapped votive candle to ornaments marked with "Happy Holidays" and
the year. Traditional favors (such as potpourri sachets or Jordan almonds) could
add to theme if wrapped in white tulle and silver ribbons or streamers. Silver
ribbons would accent any choice wonderfully.
As for general decorating, there are many
choices. One suggestion is to use miniature Christmas trees with snow (faux, of
course) laden branches. You can decorate with white and silver ribbons or you
could place favors on the branches. One idea takes a bit of planning as it could
be rather expensive. It would be absolutely stunning to have a miniature
Christmas or holiday village on the cake table or on it's own table. If planning
to do this, you might ask for a "mini-house" or "Christmas
village" shower, and surprise shower guests with your use of the village at
the wedding. Another option is to purchase one house or village piece per month
until the wedding to try and keep costs manageable. When the wedding is over,
you can use the village every Christmas as decoration. Inexpensive snowflake or
star ornaments can be used on walls or hanging from simple white fabric swags.
Another option is to place them around the cake table or hanging from
tablecloths. Finally, the same suggestion I give for many theme weddings. White
Christmas bulbs wrapped in tulle would look wonderful. The same warning as usual
too: please make sure to buy "cool-to-the touch" bulbs. I hope that
these ideas give you inspiration to create your perfect Winter Wonderland
wedding!
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