There's more to being a best man than one might at first realize. Not only will the Best Man have an important role to play on the wedding day, but he will also be an invaluable helper in the months leading up to it.

He is the groom's right-hand man, the one he'll depend on to be what all truly good friends are: dependable, trustworthy, and helpful.

Here is a summary of the Best Man's responsibilities:

• Assisting in any way he can throughout the wedding planning process.

• Hosting a stag or bachelor party (optional) or co-hosting a pre-wedding

• "Stag and Doe" party with the maid of honor (optional).

• Attending all pre-wedding parties, including any Jack-and-Jill showers, and the rehearsal dinner, if any.

• Assisting with the formalwear arrangements.

• Reviewing the duties of the ushers with them.

• Making sure all ushers arrive on time, well ahead of the guests and the start of the ceremony.

• Making sure all ushers receive boutonnières.

• Taking care of the bride's wedding ring and handing it to the groom at the appropriate time.

• Escorting the maid of honor in the wedding ceremony recession.

• Seeing that the officiator, organist, etc., are discreetly paid.

• Making sure the ushers are seating the guests properly at the reception.

• Giving the first toast and reading aloud telegrams.

• Assuming the role of Master of ceremonies (optional).

• Mingling with guests and making introductions.

• Ensuring the newlywed couple leaves for their honeymoon in dependable transportation (perhaps you'll chauffeur them yourself in your own car) with all luggage accounted for.

• Seeing that all formalwear is returned.