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Bridal attire and customs have varied in this
country through the years. Our first known natives the Indians did not know
cloth. For centuries the eastern tribes made do with animal skins. There was no
formal marriage service, no nuptial vow. The parents of a young Indian girl
might have arranged a union with a chosen partner. But more often a couple
decided to live together as husband and wife.
When an Indian girl reached puberty, news spread
she was of marrying age. She was honored and elaborately feted with ceremonials,
dances and celebrations. A date might be chosen and marriage performed. Unlike
the puberty festivals, when a marriage took place it was simple and casual. On
occasion there might be an exchange of gifts and this could be the whole
ceremony. The gifts would consist of jewelry, blankets. The gifts would be given
to the parent. If the parents accepted the gifts the union would be accepted.
The
wedding apparel of a young Indian bride would probably be a knee-length skirt of
deerskin and a band of wampum beads around her forehead. Her body might be bare
from the waist up. She would probably wear fine stones or shell necklaces for
decoration. Indians were not introduced to gold, silver and precious stones.
Even glass was unknown to them. Indian women took great pride in their hair. It
would be long sleek and shiny. In cold weather the young bride would wear
deerskin leggings and moccasins and maybe a robe of turkey feathers. Fashion was
not known to the Indian female. They did however paint their face in colors.
White was a symbol of happiness and peace. They loved the color red and painted
their face with circles of it. Both men and women wore tattoos. Indians were
very private with affection especially romantic love. They never kissed in
public, however marriages were strong and lasting.
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